Here are 5 reasons as to why you shouldn’t try change someone or try solve their problems:
1. When you try to solve the problems of someone who doesn’t want to change
They can easily be annoying or embarrassing because you constantly give unwanted advice to someone who does not want your advice to lead to conflict and stress that affects a relationship.
2. When we want to try and change someone
We assume that we know better than you what is best for them. This can be considered an air superiority and you can sometimes act as a customer, even if you do not want it.
3. When you start to make decisions for other people
They begin to lose their ability to make decisions for themselves.
4. If they don’t change
We can get angry at them because our efforts are not appreciated.
5. When we want to change others
We can easily be distracted from the resolution of our own problems because for some reason, solving others’ problems is easier than solving their own problems.